3 days agoMember-only5 Things I Do Now to Be My Best in 20+ YearsThere’s the school of thought that women should accept how they age and learn to love themselves in the condition they turn out to be without tricks and gimicks. I’m more of the school of thought that if you want to do something now to age gracefully and healthily, and…Lifestyle5 min readLifestyle5 min read
May 2Member-only5 First Date Faux Pas by Real MenI have gone on my fair share of first dates, and while a lot of them have gone great, some of them have been EPIC failures. While sharing bad first date stories with co-workers during some virtual water cooler talk, one guy asked what he should avoid doing. It’s a…Dating4 min readDating4 min read
Mar 15Member-onlyLadies- Are We Trusting Men with Daily Birth Control?I recently watched a clip of Paternity Court, where a couple was in because the male spouse could not believe that his wife was pregnant with his child. Putting aside other facts of their relationship like her drinking habits and their infidelity to their previous spouses, Mr. …Sex3 min readSex3 min read
Mar 13Member-onlyDear Men, Dating Is Hard for Women TooI keep hearing men say that women are the ones in power when it comes to dating because we have so many more options than they do. This comes from women being more likely to be hit on than men are in social settings, and more likely to be liked…Relationships3 min readRelationships3 min read
Mar 13Member-onlyBloody Sheets, Underbutts and other insecurities men don’t bat an eye atUs girls and women are plagued with insecurities. We’re so afraid of people knowing our dirty and even not so dirty little secrets. …Women3 min readWomen3 min read
Feb 6Member-onlyAre You Settling for Someone That Is Only Right On Paper?I’m so tired of hearing people feel entitled to a relationship with someone because “things were going well.” We can all agree a lot can go into forming a relationship with someone. A mutual attraction, personality compatibilities, how you handle conflict together, comparable values and possibly even comparable ideas of…Relationships3 min readRelationships3 min read
Feb 1Member-onlyYou Made It into My Matches, Here’s What Not to Do NextI have been partaking in online dating on and off for about eight years now. Most matches won’t turn into a first date. Conversation might fade, one of us might just jump off the app for one reason or another, or we just never find the right time to go…Dating3 min readDating3 min read
Jan 26Member-onlyAre You an East Target for Narcissists?There is enough information out there about who is a narcisist. They offend repeatedly with mental and emotional abuse, display controlling behaviors, and switch back and forth between extremely loving and horrifically mean. It seems to me, however, that some people are more prone to end up in relationships with…Dating5 min readDating5 min read
Jan 13Member-onlyMy Most Recent Break up Feels Like a SuccessI’d been dating a man for the past three months. We felt instant chemistry on the first date. Conversation and affection came easy to us, we discussed our careers and common interests, including where we were in our love lives. He expressed that he was treading slow because he’d recently…Relationships4 min readRelationships4 min read
Published inChange Your Mind Change Your Life·Jan 8Member-only6 Ways to Be a More Conscientious PartnerIt can be very easy to attract a new partner, but much harder to keep that person. Once they start noticing the small things about you that didn’t come up as red flags in the first date, like the way you leave your dirty socks around their apartment or you’re…Relationships4 min readRelationships4 min read